Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Sticks and Stones may break my bones,but words? :|

Betrayed? Guilty? Miserable? Broken hearted? After a break up, there is so much emotion at risk. It is a basic part of life. Certainly, no affairs are the same. Affairs are like shoes. Some are long lasting as others are doomed to fail. People also deal differently with disappointments. To effectively manage the harsh impact of break up, there are healthy ways that one can opt to do and here are some of them:

Cry And Release Negativity. No relationship is perfect. People often find it difficult to accept a failed relationship. It is okay to cry. Crying is not bad, healthy even. It can take away negative sensations and can greatly improve one's mood. When you get hurt, cry. If you are a robot, you will certainly not cry. But you are not a robot. You're human being. Imagine a kid running a race. As he was turning down the street, he slipped and hurt his knees. He cried for a few minutes. But after realizing what happened, he carefully wiped his tears, stood and completed the race. The race is like relationships. One can slip down the road, get hurt and move on.

Skip The Drama And Don't Blame. If there are no perfect relationships, there are no perfect people either. Everyone can commit mistakes in one way or another. So don't blame your partner's weaknesses if you do not want to be accountable of yours. If the relationship is malfunctioning and the issues are insolvable, check the best options. You wouldn't want to stay if you are just forced to, right?

Accept The Situation. Before you can really move on, you have to learn the truth of the situation. The truth is, the two of you parted ways. It may take a moment, but let it sink in. Know that this chapter of your life is closed. As not to make matters difficult, avoid fantasizing that your ex will crawl back to your arms and everything will be okay again. Just remember that a phase of your life has closed but not your life per say. You still have a chance to move on. Lingering to an old love can only make things complex for you and your ex.

Learn From The Experience. Experience is the best educator. Let the things that happened to you be a life lesson. In the process, learn to forgive yourself and your ex. You wouldn't want to commit the same mistakes twice. Nonetheless, don't judge people just because you've been hurt. If you've been betrayed, don't imagine that all people will betray you. Once you forgive, deduct all the negative vibes. That way, you can move on and open a new chapter in life.

Surround Yourself With Positive People And Things. Hold firm to your faith and always have hope. To stay positive you can read motivational books and inspirational quotes online or from acquaintances. Listen to good music. Try to avoid endeavors that will remind you of the sorrow and pain. Keeping a healthy state of mind will help you stay sane mainly in these trying times. Also, do not surround yourself with bad influence individuals who will draw you to try drugs, alcohol and other vices. They are not the people you should go with if you want to move on with life productively.

Being in love is taking risks. Problems are inevitable. It helps make the relationship stronger. Then again, if situation arise when problems are already impractical to solve, accept that fact. Before you can move on you have to close this chapter of your life first. It can be hard but not impossible. Good luck!

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Don't dare to love,because God Hates us All!! Being Emo is SHIT, SHIT AND ONLY SHIT! Rather,beat the shit out of that asshole. :) Take care fellas! 


1 comment:

Anonymous said...

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